Do you find yourself in arguments that start at the drop of a hat? Or more like flatmates, crossing each other’s path in the course of daily life? What happened to the relationship hope that kept you both so engaged?In the early stages of a relationship everything is new and…
Are you always rescuing your partner or your adult child? Do you feel responsible for them? Is it helping or are you feeling burdened, frustrated and trapped? In codependency relationships one person (the rescuer) feels burdened by the needs and wants of their loved one (the victim). In other words they take the role…
Is your self-talk peppered with words like I 'must', 'should' or 'have to'? When you speak to yourself, or anyone else like this, you're not inspiring success. In fact you are most often doing the opposite – building a wall between yourself and what you want to achieve. WHY? Because... 1.…
Have you spent your life bending over backwards to accommodate the needs of others in a quest to be accepted, needed, and validated? If, so then you know the pain of feeling not enough, and the accompanying fear that those around you will eventually discover your flaws. Chances are you…
Are you experiencing christmas stress? Christmas and New Year is promoted as a special time of the year for sharing, gift giving, and celebration. However, for many the romanticized version of Christmas can be the cause of significant emotional dis-stress. Christmas stress for you might be the pressure of finances,…